Hi Mama ~ That was your biggest mistake -- not being tested in 2009. You NEVER know who can pass something on to you. Now you said you tested positive, are you talking about HIV?

Why did your husband say he'd support you all the way at first, and now he doubts you? You'll just have to keep trying to keep convincing him that you didn't test yourself because you just didn't think you'd be infected. I really don't know what else to tell you.

But you have to remember that you two are going to have to use a lot of protection to keep HIM from being infected. He's at danger now too, you know especially if you talking about HIV. And i ASSUME that the hospital tested your child when it was born too, correct?? They're supposed to anyway.

I think you two should go to marriage counseling if you want to save the marriage. Ask your husband to go with you. I'm sure it would help. I wish you the very best. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee