Sweetie, when he said "oh, you're not going anywhere" he was chiding you. He meant that your feelings are so strong for him, you don't have the guts to leave.

This guy is using you and you know it, and HE knows it. And he doesn't care. You need to leave him and find someone who will LOVE you like you DESERVE to be loved.

You need someone who will RESPECT you like you deserve to be respected. Right now, all you are is a romp in bed. There's NO respect there.

So take back your self-esteem and find someone else. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee