So my wife cheated on me twice with the same guy in the last year. Obviously this has caused a lot of pain, stress, distrust etc. anytime I try to talk to her about it or how I'm feeling and try, as much as possible, to resolve the situation so we can both move on; she just gets frustrated and upset bc she thinks I'm trying to just constantly bring it up and/or ruin the day. The most talking she will do is until she feels the conversation is over. Regardless if I'm done or not.
I don't know what to do. I want and need to talk to HER but she is essentially unwilling. Advice?? Coping mechanisms??? Anything would be helpful!!