I understand what you're saying. I told my t about this site and found myself watching my posting, editing more, etc. I never knew when he might read and I might post about something that I wasn't ready to go one-on-one with him yet.

I did that because I knew he knew about the site, my role, etc.

However, prior to that, I didn't have that concern. Maybe I should've, but I didn't.

Think about it this way...if your t did find this site, how would she know you by your user name? With ALL the posts on this site, I don't think that one would stand out more than the other. Also, EV, I don't think you give enough information for someone to say, "Oh, that MUST be her." Do you?

I hope you feel better about it.

KD