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Originally Posted by Leed
Personally, I don't see what your past should have to do with the present. If you're going with a guy, what difference does your past have to do with what's going on now??? Why does he even have to KNOW about your past as long as you're truthful with him NOW?
He's being unreasonable. He didn't have have to know about your past! If you told him something and perhaps "missed" something, so what? Actually it's none of his business in the first place, as long as you were honest with him while you were with him.
He owe YOU an apology in MY book. YOu don't. That's how I see it. God bless. I'm sorry you're going thru this. Take care and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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I agree with this. Unfortunately, not everyone does. The hard part is figuring out who will end up compromising. Even then, I feel like it is a lose lose situation. For some reason, certain people want a detailed account of your past and you end up getting blamed for either a) omitting on purpose... which isn't normally true. We tend to forget things we see as insignificant. or b) being judged for our past actions whether or not they are a current part of our lives. Going over your past is a sticky situation. I personally don't care to hear about your past. I'd rather experience a person for who they are today rather than hear stories from their past that don't necessarily affect the present. Past relationships are one of those things. It isn't fair to quiz someone on their past. They may or may not recall everything or agree that everything is significant.