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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
 I think what T was trying to say was that she's your T and talking to your husband has damaged your relationship with her. Another option is to always have T on speaker when talking to your husband. I don't think she was on his side just trying to explain how things effect you. You and your husband may want to consider finding a couples therapist that has dealt with BPD and he should start therapy on his own with his own T. |
Thanks for your response. I appreciate it. My husband is going to find a T of his own, which is one good thing. And yes, perhaps we should try couples counselling too. We've considered it in the past when things used to be much worse but we had both thought we were past needing that now. But perhaps not.