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Originally Posted by VenusHalley
You don't recover for the society, you do it for yourself. Of course you can sit in corner and down, put politically correct sayings on your walls and worry about what society things and feel hurt.
i know my neighbors probably think i am weird. Many people here probably think I am a beyotch. But eh... I am not gonna change that. But I can try to live for myself and knowing i was right... I wonder if the defensivness of "I can't" couldn't be... "I am scared". Because I am scared too. But at least to myself i admit, I maybe could...
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It IS scary and it's hard. Frankly, it's harder to be "sane" when you have issues, than it is to hide away in your own misery and issues. I definitely think that in most cases, it's not lack of ability, but rather the lack of will or want.
Yes I realize that's not politically correct, and definitely not the general consensus here, but I really do like to think that everyone has the ability.
But yes....you definitely don't recover for anyone else but yourself, and when you do, or you're forced to, chances are you don't make any kind of real recovery or change. Look at all those who are forced into rehab...most of the time they end up in the same place as before just for the fact they didn't choose to do it for themselves.