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Originally Posted by revestars
when there are really no more affordable competent therapists anywhere and we KNOW somehow that without caring support from real people we will NOT make it?
A nice back yard may be "spiritual" but it can still be HELL if you need someone and not someTHING.
Who can help people like us.....most posts I cannot touch because of my own pain. I came here because of the isolation...but I canceled my idiotic facebook page for the tenth time...because of the isolation it caused me.
I want someone to call me who is not a recruiter for a scammy slave-operation. I never get real phone calls. I need a friend, what a stupid thing to want.
But if I can't I'm *ead.
I could use a nice job too. I also know I'm not supposed to want it cause if I was I'd have it by now.
Desperation goes beyond words.
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I feel if you get the right understanding therapist , that sticks with you no matter what , and there for the long haul as I once had many , many years ago . You got the best chance of recovery as I did many years ago in the mid 90s .Now I cant get anyone to stick around long enough soon as you become a bit challenging to their ideas on how you should handle your bpd , they are heading out the door . I also get sick of the patronizing comments , get back with talking about real emotional issues then told to just watch some tv or some relaxation excises . Which is all good however you have done all that and feeling the same . It' makes me angry how bpd is so trivialized in the mental health system these days .'