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Old Mar 14, 2013, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted by revestars View Post
when there are really no more affordable competent therapists anywhere and we KNOW somehow that without caring support from real people we will NOT make it?

A nice back yard may be "spiritual" but it can still be HELL if you need someone and not someTHING.

Who can help people like us.....most posts I cannot touch because of my own pain. I came here because of the isolation...but I canceled my idiotic facebook page for the tenth time...because of the isolation it caused me.

I want someone to call me who is not a recruiter for a scammy slave-operation. I never get real phone calls. I need a friend, what a stupid thing to want.

But if I can't I'm *ead.

I could use a nice job too. I also know I'm not supposed to want it cause if I was I'd have it by now.

Desperation goes beyond words.
I feel if you get the right understanding therapist , that sticks with you no matter what , and there for the long haul as I once had many , many years ago . You got the best chance of recovery as I did many years ago in the mid 90s .Now I cant get anyone to stick around long enough soon as you become a bit challenging to their ideas on how you should handle your bpd , they are heading out the door . I also get sick of the patronizing comments , get back with talking about real emotional issues then told to just watch some tv or some relaxation excises . Which is all good however you have done all that and feeling the same . It' makes me angry how bpd is so trivialized in the mental health system these days .'