Have not had a desire most of my life.... but have always been on something (anti-d's) had an ex that cheated off and on for 15 years. No trust, so hard to relax in that regard. I was like a puppy that had been kicked. Neglected as a child. I could write a book, so some of it is not due to meds... but therapy has helped me greatly in that regard.

However, Seroquel has relaxed me greatly and that has really helped.