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Originally Posted by BrokenMoon
Am I making people not like me by being to nice? Or maybe they honestly don't even think I mind, sometimes I am accused of being cold and detatched. Even when I try to be helpful people tell me that because I always smile or have a straight face I don't seem human because it's as if nothing makes me sad or jealous or angry at people.
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People don't like it when someone is too nice sometimes, because they view the person as being fake or inauthentic. Nobody can be nice ALL the time and never have any bad feelings, so if you appear to be that way, then people will think you're not being honest.
You could work on changing your facial expressions a bit, so that you appear more animated. One great way to do that is to take an acting class. If you practice this enough, it will become natural after a while and won't feel forced.
That said....it is absolutely NOT your fault, whatsoever, that your friends ditched you. I think they were very unkind here, and purposely excluded you. I hope you can find a better group to hang out with soon!