Thread: Shame / stuff you can't tell your T
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Old Mar 15, 2013, 11:08 AM
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But I can't shake the belief that he'll think: "How can she talk about that?" That he'll think badly of me for telling him.

I still convinced myself he thought badly of me for telling. I imagined him thinking: "If that really happened and she really has just remembered it, she wouldn't be telling me."

I can't picture telling him, having him know, some things, without me having to crawl into a hole in the ground.
These ^ are all pretty normal reactions to telling. Going through the process and working through it is how you get to the other side. Maybe tell him this stuff first?
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