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Old Mar 15, 2013, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by aquaman View Post
You'll think I'm crazy for saying this, but I'm trying to go the other way. I want to kill my sex drive because it really distracts me from a lot of things I want to do in life. I've spent way too much time in front of the computer...eh...watching things, than I care to admit.

I'm married. But my wife and I haven't had relations since my son was born over two years ago.

Anyway, I want to be kind of like Sheldon Cooper from the big bang theory (though I'm not a genius and I'm not socially awkward).

Doesn't make a lot of sense does it .
It does not make any sense to me at all, because I do not understand what you are getting from watching things on the computer. Not that I think that it is bad, but I do not understand it. At all. Some years ago, I was involved in the technology of porn filtering, professionally, so I had a lot of incidental exposure to porn images (not movies, but still images). I did find them amusing, but I could not get how people could get attracted or aroused by watching them. It is completely beyond me. But I also do not have a TV and have never had a TV in my adult life so I am just a weird person overall.

At any rate, it seems that your problem is not the sex drive per se, but its misapplication. You do not have relations with a human being but you do watch things on the computer. So it seems that given that the problem lies in the misapplication, the solution should be sought through re-focusing the drive from the computer to humans. Killing the drive does not address the problem of its mis-application, so you are looking in the wrong place.