Yeah I can see where his T is coming from actually.
We cant protect our kids from everything, as much as we'd like to.

My parents baby'd me. ALOT, and as an adult I have come to realize that they crippled me to quite a large extent.

I had Jordan young, 19 when she was born. And at 19 I had never even been expected to wipe my own arse yet, but was responsible for another humanbeing! Needless to say, motherhood has been more of an adjustment for me than my peers.

Not saying you do this. Just letting you see the other side of the coin.

btw. Sounds like him and T have a good rapor, atleast he's challenging your son's thought process and decision making. Who knows, maybe he can get through to him eventually.

Also. There is ALOT of pressure on young people to figure out their lives and start building their futures.
Honestly I think its a bit much. You are born, go to little people school, childen school, adolescent school, then are told to choose what you wanna do for the rest of your life so you can go to adult school.

Graduate, THEN its time to work your arse off to pay for everything...

When do any of these kids get to LIVE? Experience life?
No wonder so many rebel or end up seriously depressed. We are humanbeings, not humandoings.

I'm not saying sit back and watch him float on by, just asking as someone who only found her career path 10 yrs after highschool, to see it from the other side.

Ohk I think I'm talking too much and may just sound like I'm lecturing you (which I'm not)