I have a family member who is an alcoholic living with me in my STUDIO apartment right now. This person is already starting to relaps (part of the deal, though not directly confirmed) was that this person was only staying until they got on their feet and that they wouldn't drink while staying at my place. I've made this person clear on my position about alcohol, I'm a recovering alcoholic myself. This person works construction at his friends company who is also an alcoholic and not the greatest influence. If the weather is poor... forget about it, they don't work... they party. At the current rate, this relative will never earn enough money to get on their feet, and whats even worse is that winter is almost here and I feel absolutely certain that this person will come right back to my doorstep. I'm depressed/anxious as hell over this and I'm not sure what to do, it seems like a bad deal with any choice I make.
Does anyone have experience with this? I'd appreciate the help.
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