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Old Mar 15, 2013, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
It would be best if you could talk about this issue directly rather than repeat the behavior with your T. That way, the need will be fulfilled in a healthy way, and you won't feel the need to act out the behaviors.
I've read this thread with great interest as I recognize some of the same patterns within myself.

Feralkitty -- can I ask a question? When one talks about the issue directly with your therapist how is the need fulfilled in a healthy way? I don't ask this to be contrary. I truly want to know what your thinking is on this as I haven't yet discovered for myself how this need is met in therapy.