Passionsky,

A little back story:
As I kid i was / am really smart. I dropped out of high school the day I turned old enough. Then went strait to GED. My dad did not know I dropped out until I received my GED and college admissions letter. I was really close to him so it hurt him. I wish my parents listened to everyone that said I needed help. I was drowning and they had no idea.

Please do judge your son's relationship w/ his T it may be much more challenging then you think. When your met with pessimism like, "the education system is a joke", meet it with "So, what are you going to do about it?". Take a step (or a fight) at a time GED first. Then have him test out of college courses. See if your T or GP can put in a request for an evaluation. You may want to look into a therapeutic public high school.