I will borrow an expression from ex' vocabulary because I find it particularly lovely: "out of range of usual human experience".

So, my last suicidal depression a year ago arose out of his wanting me to leave California for good and never contact the kids in his lifetime. I was on disability that was about to end, without any money, income, etc.

So I think this qualifies as "out of range of usual human experience" rather than "always a situation".