Heh...well, do keep in mind, a swan turned on Leda, if you read Greek myths. Could always be worse.

Anyway, I do echo the sentiments about talking to your wife first. Going through with such a thing without her being 110% okay with it is a surefire way to create undue, additional stress in your marriage. Besides, it would likely be better for the two of you to try to help each other with the problem, given the intimate nature of it.