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Originally Posted by Bill3
This is completely incorrect. The reason he wants a child is to try to secure you even more tightly to him. He will not be a good father and he will not treat you better. No: he will treat you worse. Your child will suffer from his neglect/abuse and also from his mistreatment of you.
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Right.
Plus, even if we assume, hypothetically, that things will get better ("I feel like maybe if i give him a child things will get better."), which has zero likelihood as pointed out by Bill, but just for the sake of a hypothetical, SO WHAT?
Even if it gets marginally better,
it will still be very bad and you can still do way better for yourself in your life. You are not desperate in any way and you should not think desperate or act desperate.