Ok, I have an update... Had the meeting, went ok, I guess, considering. I remained calm and cool until I didn't need to anymore!! But I was still a good girl! I stared him down the entire time!! He would keep glancing at me to see if I was still looking at him! He wasn't a bit comfortable! Anyway, the judge still needed to decide on a few things that we couldn't agree to. I got what I wanted as far as material and monetary. For the most part!! He has to do a refi to get my name off of everything. It still remains to be seen that he will be able to do that. After all, we used both of our incomes, my inheritance, and our income was stated, not proven. I really don't see that happening so I'm far from being out from under the "bills"! None of my kids have made no effort to get in touch with me.....don't see it happening at all. MY son lives on the same property as I do, it was awarded to me by the judge... He has to move!! It is very complicated! All of this is MY fault!! He is the one having the affair with the one who was my maid of honor at our wedding! She's got some kind of "honor", huh? He's turn my kids against me....she has broken up at least 4 marriages that I know of....but I'm the scape goat....I am still very hurt and will cry at the drop of a hat, I've not gotten mad or angry, just too hurt to feel anything but pain. Very hard to stay positive, but doing my best. God gets all the praise and glory I can muster, because without him I'd never have gotten this far!! Anyway, I really wasn't expecting anything, really didn't and don't care about items, I wanted this mess over with, but have no clue what to do now, which way to turn or what to even think.... I have had soooo many to turn their backs on me and stab me when my back was turned, kick me while im at my lowest point...I have an end, that I didn't want, but don't want to start again!