Do you get puppy eyes about your beau? I haven't had puppy eyes about someone attainable since....never. The only people I ever get that feeling for are the people I fantasize about, who are not attainable. I find it hard to love someone that I can have, likely because I'm afraid of getting hurt or used. There is this guy I am dating that I like, but I don't feel that lovey-dovey feeling. That spark. I haven't been dating him long, but we have great chemistry and I would like to continue dating him, but I'm too afraid to even let him kiss me. If I do, it would be that I love him back and that I'm ready for a commitment or that I would be doing things I don't necessarily want to do. How do I know if I like someone if I don't have that lovey-dovey feeling?