it's just that what they don't get is, i'm not a 5 year old anymore but to look back at it, i may be one because i can't take care of myself, i can't wash my clothes, i can't do the dishes, i mean i can but i'm just lazy and then my mother complains about how she does not get enough help from my father and i and seriously nobody yells the loudest except her and i have friends whose mothers happen to be louder than dads. oh my gosh. i hate this. i simply cannot stand this. is this what marriage is like? i hate it hate it hate it. i just want an escape from my problems... all of them and a solution.