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Old Mar 16, 2013, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted by ECHOES View Post

I keep finding myself mad at your T for her immediate departure. I realize she is married and will move with her spouse. However, she has an important and meaningful profession too. It is a large and important part of her life, and obviously a large and important part of her clients' lives. Her planning, or lack of actually, was awful. Non-existent, really. Thoughtless, to me. Of course she would move with her spouse, but she had a responsibility to exit her own profession in a responsible and therapeutic way. A move takes time to plan and organize and she should have let her clients in on what was happening. Maybe that just wasn't possible, idk, but I just find it hard to understand a sudden departure like that.
Exactly! Spot on!

I cannot fathom a real-life situation where you would HAVE to move so quickly with no warning. I also do not think it unreasonable for a T to stay behind for a month to have proper endings. My T is always on me that termination is not just one or two sessions.
Thanks for this!
ECHOES, rainbow8, Syra