Hi, Altered State,

Let me confirm as well that you're not anywhere close to being "kicked off". Unless it's a MAJOR infraction such as flooding the forums, etc., a member will receive clear warning prior to a suspension then usually several suspensions prior to a ban. There are always the extreme issues that don't fall into that, though. Let me be more clear. IF you had crossed a guideline in this thread by flaming another member, discussing detailed information from a PM, etc., your post would simply be edited and you would receive a PM...that's it. Now, after a few times of this, we might be a bit more "clear" in our expections and the potential outcome with a warning.

I want everyone to feel comfortable here with posting within the guidelines but gaining what you feel necessary with the least amount of anxiety possible.

As to advice... This is a self-help community and "These forums are for mutual support and information sharing only. (taken from the community guidelines)" If someone were to introduce themselves as a professional and clearly attempt to "treat or diagnose" another or yourself, please contact a moderator or administrator.

If you still have a concern about how you may come across in your advice and understanding, you could always start off such posts with, "This is only my personal opinion, based on what I've learned, as I'm not a professional..."

Good luck.

KD