thank you for your helpful advice. i went to work today ready to speak to her and ready to ask her out for a coffee. only, when i walked up to her i overheard her and another coleague talking about someone else julie likes. and it wasnt me. so i had to stop in my tracks and turn and walk away. it was a short lived feeling, but im glad i felt it, shows i can still feel something for someone, even if it goes nowhere.

so thats that. i am abit upset it didnt even get going, but never mind, there will be more opportunities in the future.

i am annoyed aswel though. i did like her and after reading your posts on here, i was ready and confident to go talk to her today, but it was soon snatched away putting me back to the start.

thanks again

simon