how many sessions have you had skittles? I will share one thing. I had a hard time feeling like i clicked. Once it was because the T was so different than me. but with my current T, it was just because I was mistrustful. I had had a few Ts that didnt care about me or werent emotionally attentive, parents that werent nurturing, and even pastors who betrayed me. So i interpreted everything my current T said or did that was a bit confusing as rejection, but it wasnt. I stayed with her and little by little, I learned to trust. I learned to ask her when I didnt understand why something happened or something was said. Im not sure which case yours is most like.. but if its more like the second, i'd say you might want to stick with her