I'm afraid to fall in love. I'm afraid of having sex. This guy is everything I am looking for, but I don't want to kiss him because it would give him the impression that I am in love with him or that I want to have sex with him. And how do I know I like him if I don't find physical attraction? I found him attractive when he was dressed up in uniform, but now that we're hanging out I'm too scared to explore him or think about us as a couple. I'm seeing my T the day before I'm going to the concert with him so I'm hoping for some clarity.