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Old Mar 17, 2013, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted by kelly4519 View Post
If you've lived with critisism and negativity that could be why you are seeking validation to prove someone wrong? It has to come from within. Every success leads to another desire for more success and validation. I think we need to accept ourselves,, right now as we are. There may never be another tomorrow. Count your blessings right now. Think of just one thing you are grateful for, it may lead you to yet another. Then you won't need that outside source of contentment with acheivements. Love yourself right now and forgive yourself for whatever you feel down on yourself about.
I think this is a very good answer. Its hard seeing through the negativity of depression and if you've been down very long, its that much harder to make that first step and even when we do, even a minor setback can make us feel like nothing will ever work. I think the most successful people are succesful not because they know more or are luckier, but simply because they dont give up and continue to try.