okay I'm thinking this has way more to do with something other than "whats for dinner?"
My husband seems to never choose what is for dinner, I get to do it. And, you're right, if he complains and doesn't like dinner, then it MUST be my responsibility. But I finally quit worrying about what he did and didn't like and had what I liked for dinner. Less stress for me, and I got what I wanted to eat! If this is one of your biggest relationship problems, then you are doing ok? No? or is there more to this?