Thank you all for your kind advice. I went to his counselor just to test the water. We've had several iissues with my mom being overprotective. I think what makes the situation complicated is that a few have known about this in my immediate family and we have been forced to continue like this despite knowing. I told my mom when I was 9 and since then, we've taken extreme precaution. When she first found out, she tried to proceed with a legal case but couldn't because I got last-minute fright of the doctor seeing my privates. She told my dad and he instead cornered her by saying he would kill the family and shortly after, she found a hidden gun also have a little brother that I love like my own child who is a result of the sexual abuse she had to undergo to keep us safe. I resented her for staying with him until i found out her side of the story months ago. It's because of this that I'm sacred of revealing anything to his counselor. I think my boyfriend would be very upset amd ask why I lived like this for so many years and he would hate my parents. If I tell all, it would be obvious ky family is in danger and that is something for his counselor to report.

I have convinced my mother to find a way to divorce. She has no means of supporting the family without my father so that is what she is currently trying to secure. My father is denial as to why we hate him. I have clearly told him the worst things you can tell a person. My home is a sort of battle ground (verbally) and my boyfriend already dislikes my father without even knowing the core of the issue.