I'm sorry you're struggling with infertility. My H and I went through it for many years so I understand where you're coming from. People can be SO rude but they don't realize it and aren't trying to be hurtful. I still remember how hurt I was when someone saw me with my d. and said "time for another, isn't it?" It wasn't a friend even. It was none of that person's business!

I think that a T should be more compassionate, though. What I wonder, though, is: you've seen this T for 7 years and you haven't told her how you feel? She doesn't know? That makes me feel that she's not the right T for you anymore. I think it's an excellent idea to see a T who specializes in infertility. Most likely, she's gone through it herself. Good luck! With starting a family and with a new T if you choose to see the ones you found. I would talk to your T about how you feel, though. After 7 years, she ought to know why you're quitting if you do.