Thanks everyone. I actually took a stand last night... shortly after leaving the message. This person showed up last night just freaking ineabriated. I was firm and wouldn't let them passed my doorstep, I threatend to call the police if I had too. He tried to talk his way in and kept trying to walk in. I was getting upset, to the point that my voice was becoming shakey and uneven, face was getting hot, adrenaline surging. I was pretty sure that violence was about to happen, this person has a very violent history, fortunately nothing like that happened. I feel good, but unfortunatly it's not over. I havn't gone home from work yet and havn't confronted the person since last night. Man I hate this crap... as if life wasn't hard enough.

Anyways, thanks for the advice guys. It is sound advice, you all are right. I've been dealing with this persons problems all my life and I'm sick of it. I'm having a hard enough time keeping myself together, I can't afford this persons problems... even if he ends up on the street... man I hate saying that.