I recently started mentoring a 9th grade girl who cuts and ODs. I myself have never done either, but I used to pick and I had a life-threatening eating disorder and have attempted suicide. I was also the victim of childhood sexual abuse. I have since turned my life around, although I still struggle, as everyone does.

I completely understand what she is saying and how she feels, but since I have never tried cutting or drugs, I am not sure if there is anything I need to know in order to best guide her towards recovery. She is eager to learn and truly wants to get help. She is going to therapy as I have encouraged her to do, but she is looking to me as a mentor. I feel privileged and find it amazing how I can use my past mistakes and demons to help others. I am currently researching cutting to learn more about it, but I wanted to post to see if anyone could help me better reach her where SHE is, not just applying the similar struggles that I have had. IDK if that makes sense??

Thank you!!!