I am in a 36 year marriage. My husband likes to spend money and has had his own credit card that I've know about but have never seen the balance or what he puts on it.
I just confronted him recently that I want to see the statement and he refuses unless I put his name on my bank account (which I don't want to do because of his spending habits). I've told him to leave if he chooses not to share this information with me as I feel a marriage should be open and honest. He finally agreed to pack up and leave today but then I get scared, changed the subject and he doesn't end up leaving which makes me even more angry at myself.
I feel disgusted when I look at him and nothing but anger comes out of my mouth when I talk to him.
Any comments would be so much appreciated.