Yeah I guess I am resentful. Unfortunately, there is little that affects just him...
because lots of it is houses and cars and all of that is in both our names...

I gave up doing his laundry a while ago... its just that he ignore things that need to be taken care of around home...not that I'm expecting him to do it himself just call and have someone look at it... but he doesn't do it...so its up to me .. like there is a wet spot on our upstairs bathroom ceiling which means the roof is leaking... been there 3 months.