Telling you that you'll grow out of it sounds dismissive to me. Why is she talking herself out of a job?

If she was new, I'd say give it time. As it's been a year, I think it would be an idea to talk to her and see what she says, which will inform what, if anything, you do next.

I was wrong about what I wanted from T. Thought I wanted structure and questions but I don't. However after a year I think you can know what you want.