I think he is being VERY selfish to want to take you away from your family! Shame on him. What if you demanded that the both of you move to get away from HIS family? Would he move? Of course not! Don't move just because they make him "on edge."

He doesn't have to go visit them if he doesn't want to. You can always visit them without him. And if they come to visit you, why not send him somewhere on errands? Or else he can go work in the garage on a hobby or chore?!! If he doesn't have any hobby, tell him to go take a hike. LOL I can't believe how selfish he's being.

Don't leave if you don't want to. This is the ONLY family you're ever going to have. I'm sure you don't want to leave your grandbabies!!! So just don't go. If he doesn't like it, let him go alone. You can always demand a great amount of alimony in court. LOL God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee