Hmmm if you are questioning your diagnosis you could ask to be tested again
Remember people are going to present their DID symptoms differently and it appears to me at least that even within DID there is a continuom of mild to severe. Plus everyone is on a different place in there journey with it.

Since alchohol was involved in some of your blackouts I would question that as the diagnostic criteria is specific that memory lapsez are not caused by alchohol. I'd say try not to compare yourself to everyone here. Read some journal articles or case studies or books on DID. Actually there is a really good resources sticky at the top of this forum. I reccomend starting there!