This happened to me a few days ago and ever since I've been feeling constantly anxious, or like I don't belong anymore. It's actually made me want to transfer schools to be closer to my family so that maybe I will fit in better there. If anyone could give me their thoughts or opinions, that would be great.

Okay, so my friend (J) and sister (Q) and I all decided we wanted to go to this night club in the cities for St. Patty's day. I drove Q there with me and we met Jesse there. I spent a lot of money that night (for clothes, gas, and parking without any help from Q). When we got to the club the line was down the street and we ended up waiting in line for an hour and a half. (I didn't want to wait that long, I suggested we do something else but they both didn't want to). By the time we got to the front, J and Q could get in the club, but I couldn't. So they went in to dance or whatever and I went back to the car and waited there. After about an hour I decided I would try to do something else, but the only way I could get out of this parking lot was to either give him the ticket I received when I first parked(which Q had) or pay 15 dollars. Well my sister didn't respond to my texts so I had to pay the fifteen dollars to get out. I was supposed to meet a different friend of mine a couple miles away, but by the time I got there J called me and told me to come back and pick up Q. (Even though J drove there also and could easily drop Q off at home). So I never ended up meeting with my friend and had to bring Q home right away. I was a little snippy with them because I was upset and they *****ed at me about that.

So, do you think it was alright for my friends to leave me in the car while they had fun? Was I justified with being upset with them or should i not have been snippy? Any other thoughts?

So there's another part to this story. Me and J are roommates and we go to the same college. The college Q goes to was having their spring break, so she decided to come visit us for that week. I told her on the way home that I was leaving the next day and that she would have to have J drive her up. (which is easy for her because it is on the way from her house). The day after I get back to my apartment I get a text from J that said 'Thanks for not telling Q you were going back to -the town I live in-. Now I have to go to her house to get her. Think of someone else for a change.' Now that pissed me off big time. But I decided to keep my cool and just simply tell her that I did tell Q that I was going home(because I did). But she didn't believe me, basically calling me a liar. I didn't want to start anything so I didn't say anything back.

So what do you think about that? I'm still pissed off at both of them. Should I just let it go, or tell them how I feel? Am I wrong for being pissed off? Lastly, all of this has made me want to transfer. I'm supposed to live with them both next year, but honestly I don't want to live with friends who don't give a crap about me. I want to transfer and hopefully make real friends at my new school. Thoughts?

Sorry for the long post and thank you to anyone who read it all and comments.