I have had a passive aggressive relationship that was trauma on me and it was the hardest thing to walk away from it but in the end I am SOOOOO MUCH HAPPIER!I CAN DO BAD ON MY OWN(if wanted).You need to go to sister site Neurotalk go to forum Traumatic Brain Injury(concussion).Then you need to focus on YOU YOU YOU and getting to a neurologist and psychiatrist because concussion. If you would like to message me I can tell you more about background.