seeker1950 i pretty much have given up on relationships i got so used to being alone that when someone does come in i can't stand it i don't know maybe im suppose to be single for the rest of my life you know too that i have seen so many yrelationships fall apart that i fear the same thing but i am also tired of the initial meeting i wish we could go from point a to point d without the middle you know but i also have to two guy friends and i think i am going to stick with that for a while