simon---- i think you should go for it when i was 19 i was into clubbing and the bar seen and had a lot of friends i wouldn't have minded having a boyfriend who stays in people have recently told me that i am very intimidating guys would not ask me out because they were afraid of rejection or i wouldn't be interested in them or that i am to good for them when all along i wanted them to ask me out but because of my fear of rejection i guess i projected a vibe that said keep away from so i would say go for it you never know what the outcome maybe!