My goodness. I thought my own situation was a bit of a roller coaster! I'm a little breathless trying to keep up with what's transpired.

I'm not familiar with your story; is this fellow a professor?

I wish I could offer you some advice. Truth is, I'm not good with situations like these as I tend to have a similar response as you do - a few sweet nothings and I'm broken. That said, just know that I can sympathize with your struggle. I hope that you will be able to sort this out and perhaps be strong enough to say no to his contact.