Simon, I agree with someone's post who said you have a natural reason to tell her you would like to keep in touch with her since you are leaving the job. Ask for her phone # or e-mail address & maybe just talk on the phone or e-mail & see what kind of "vibes" you get from her. Is she having good converstions with you or is she abrupt or always "busy." Does she return your e-mails? Those questions can help you determine whether she is interested at all. If she seems to be then ask her out for coffee or to a movie where you will have something to talk about afterwards. Ask her about what is going on at your old job. You have that in common. I think this way you can try to get to know her better, but not feel totally rejected if she doesn't respond. You won't feel humiliated, which you might if asking her out on a date right off the bat. I agree with the others, you have a lot to offer so keep in mind that there are a lot of "fish in the sea" & you have plenty of time to meet someone special. My son didn't really start dating until he was 27 & he is now with a wonderful girl. My brother didn't marry until he was 40 & he is very happy. Keep pursuing your interests & passions. You may meet someone who shares that passion. My brother met his future wife at a contra dance! Take care.--Suzy