Hi, i dont have the problem of over eating myself, but i think that it is not the over eating that makes your life misrable, it is having a tough time in life which leads to over eating.

Also i think that one must be happy with himself and keeping that self image is to be his/her objective. Now if you get depressed after over eating, than it is ovious that you are not happy with the way you look. or feel inside! So try and isolate your problem and work on that!

You dont have to be thin to be happy, you dont even need to be beautiful or any of that, all you need to be, is self acceptant! If you love, accept yourself, you will live the happiest life, cause no matter what is said or done to you, you know who you are and thats all that matters!