Your probably right and it's probably just a problem of hating myself. All my friends except one are thin or trying to diet to stay slim. I really would like to begin to love myself as I really am but it's really difficult. I don't know how to be positive about myself. It's when I eat what is not healthy that I feel really guilty and fat and horrible. It makes me miserable. How do I get a positive image about myself? I've never tried to see the good things in me, only the bad things. Sometimes I wish I could just except myself as I am. I will never be slim that's for sure. My dad was big built and my mum is a normal size for her age. She is not fat. I'm not obese yet but I feel as if I am. I would love to know how to be positve.