Welcome! What you need is a shorter woman--and there are some great ones out there.

I'm already taken, but I am a 58 year old woman who is 4'10'' tall.

I think it's a shame that we short people are looked down upon. (I try to have a sense of humor about it.) And it is worse for a man, alas.

Would you like a resource for ADHD? I know one book that says that it can be like a blessing. I have a son (around 5'9''), who has ADD and is doing quite well at an elite university.

Send me a personal message if you'd like to talk more about this situation.