I read till "Women, who need the romance to feel the desire, often see sexual relating as one more chore on her list and one more failure on her part." and am not going to read further because I do not read papers that make blanket statements that are ridiculous and have no support from data.

I also prefer that people who attempt to do analysis at least TRY to use terms that have well defined meanings.

What is ROMANCE???

I mean... the author is "SUZANNE PHILLIPS, PSY.D., ABPP" and I thought that in order to obtain the honor of appending your name with various acronyms, you at some point in your life have to think.