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Originally Posted by sweetthinker
I am just wondering what people might suggest for the following scenario. What do you do when you ask your partner what they might like for dinner, and they say they are open. They never end up having any opinion, even after 13 years. Then, when you end up chosing something, and it is a bad choice, they do not take any responsibility? What do you do with a partner who never makes choices for the relationship, and never takes any responsibility for choices made in the relationship? Am I wrong to feel extremely frustrated with a person like that?
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my ex 2nd H would not voice strong opposition or ANY opposition to some of my major decisions (when to start working outside the home, which school to place our children in, which house to rent,...) but when he did not like the outcome, he made it appear as if I had disregarded his very vocal opposition.
In other words, I was at fault in any case.
It was very frustrating and I am still infuriated.