I actually don't imagine that at all or I may as well have stayed. I have my own life and don't need to add that kind of drama. The best way to move out of that kind of situation is to remove oneself, not respond and focus on other things so it doesn't drive you crazy. I'm better at that now than I used to be. I admire my sons for being good to their dad inspite of all the stuff he pulled off. Otherwise I don't go there.